"Social networking" has been around forever. It's the simple act of
expanding the number of people you know by meeting your friends'
friends, their friends' friends and so on. In fact, many of us today use
Twitter and Facebook to promote our existing and upcoming businesses.
And people looking to connect with other business-associated contacts
usually move to sites like LinkedIn, but one need to understand that social media is beyond Twitter, Facebook, LinkedIn and Blogs.
After observing and running an analysis on hundreds of Social
Networking sites I have listed down 40 most popular social networks
across countries.
1. Facebook:
To access Facebook.com, you must create an account on the site which is
free. Facebook's terms of use state that members must be at least 13
years old with valid email ID’s. After updating you're details, your
Facebook profile is generated. Using Facebook.com you can:
o Browse and join networks, which are organized into four categories: regions, colleges, workplaces and high schools.
o Pull contacts from a Web-based e-mail account, into Facebook.com.
o Find friends in several ways, including search engine to look for a specific person and lot more.
o Facebook has recently crossed 500 million users and is the most popular Social Networking site of the world.
2. MySpace:
On MySpace, your social network starts growing from the first day. When
you join MySpace, the first step is to create a profile. You then,
invite friends to join there and search for your friends on already
profiled on MySpace these friends become your initial Friend Space. Once
the friendship is confirmed all the people in your friends' Friend
Space become part of your network. In that sense, everyone on MySpace is
in your Extended Network. As part of terms of MySpace, the user must be
at least 14 years old to register.
3. Twitter:
Twitter is a very simple service that is rapidly becoming one of the
most talked-about social networking service providers. When you have a
Twitter account, you can use the service to post and receive messages to
a network of contacts, as opposed to send bulk email messages. You can
build your network of contacts, and invite others to receive your
Tweets, and can follow other members' posts. Twitter makes it easy to
opt into or out of networks. Additionally, you can choose to stop
following a specific person’s feed.
4. LinkedIn:
LinkedIn is an online social network for business professionals, which
is designed specifically for professional networking, to help them find a
job, discover sales leads, connect with potential business partners.
Unlike most of the other social networks, LinkedIn does not focus on
making friends or sharing media like photos, videos and music. To start
using LinkedIn you need to register and create a profile page. To
register to LinkedIn, you need to provide personal information. You can
update the profile with your education and job details and a summary.
Additionally, you can also give and receive recommendations from
co-workers and bosses. There are more than 75 million professionals
registered on LinkedIn.
5. Bebo:
In the United Kingdom, Bebo is the second best social network. Bebo
allows users to create social networking profiles for free. It offers
many of the same features as other social networking sites. You can
register a free account with Bebo and upload photos, videos and
information. The site lets you connect with old friends and make new
ones using a unique user interface. The site boasts users from more than
a dozen countries, including the United States, Australia, Canada,
Poland, France and Germany.
6. Friendster:
Friendster was one of the first Web sites to bring it into mass
culture. It was designed as a place to connect with friends, family,
colleagues and new friends over the Internet. However, it went beyond
just a one-way communication. Using Friendster, you can connect with
friends and family, meet new people through the connections you already
have, find people with similar interests, backgrounds or geographical
locations, join groups by activity, school or interest, interact through
message posts, games, blogs and application sharing, and share your
details with the Internet community.
7. Hi5:
Hi5 shares many similarities with many social network sites; however,
it introduces some twists that make it worthwhile for people who love
trying out new and interesting online communities. However, it is not
one of the popular sites in the United States. This was a strategic move
from the founder, therefore, Hi5 claims around 60 million members from
more than 200 countries other than the US. One of the site's biggest
transformations is the addition of many entertainment options, including
games.
8. Habbo: The Habbo
online community is inhabited by pixelated, cartoon-character alter
egos. You can meet others in public rooms (nightclubs, restaurants,
shops) and create private rooms for selected friends. Habbo employees
heavily moderate the site, catering to its solid teen user base. Most of
the users of Habbo are between the age group of 13 – 18 years.
Although, a major part of the users are from the U.S., Habbo social
networks is very popular in places like the United Kingdom, Japan,
Sweden, Spain, Italy, Finland and more.
9. NING:
Ning is the leading online platform for the world's organizers,
activists and influencers to create social experiences that inspire
action. It helps you create a safe and secure place online for
like-minded people. Ning takes the idea of groups to a whole new level.
The ability to create your own community makes Ning a great home away
from home for organizations and groups looking to fill the social void.
10. Classmates:
Classmates.com is different from most social networks, in the sense
that most of its features are available to premium member. The price for
premium members depends on the length of the agreement – shorter term
results in a higher cost per month. Classmates.com is primarily used to
reconnect with old classmates. The site features a search engine that
lets you view other people who went to the same school you attended.
Creating a basic Classmates.com profile is free and easy. However, most
of the advanced features in Classmates.com are only available to paid
users.
11. Tagged: Tagged is
a blend of social networking features that MySpace and Facebook users
will find very familiar. Tagged was designed to help users meet lots of
new people with similar interests in a short amount of time. You can
access and register directly or be invited by a friend to join Tagged.
This is a free social network that allows you to view your friends’
newly uploaded Tagged photo album. Tagged encourages its users to meet
strangers based on shared interests, with the idea of growing your
network to meet as many people as possible.
12. myYearbook:
myYearbook, the best place to meet new people and one of the 25
most-trafficked sites in the United States. myYearbook has Flash-based
games, and the games incorporate Lunch Money (the myYearbook virtual
currency). It includes a virtual economy through which people can
purchase of gifts which members send to each other. Lunch Money is also
donated by members to their favourite charity. In 2010, myYearbook
donated money to the Haiti Relief Fund to help victims of the earthquake
in Haiti.
13. Meetup:
Meetup is an online social networking portal that facilitates offline
group meetings in various localities around the world. It makes it easy
for anyone to organize a local group or find one of the thousands
already meeting up face-to-face. More than 2,000 groups get together in
local communities each day, each one with the goal of improving
themselves or their communities.
14. MyLife:
MyLife (formerly Reunion.com) is a social network service. MyLife can
search over 60 social-networking sites and other information resources
on the Web. MyLife searches the web to deliver accurate and timely
results. Even in cases when you don't immediately find who you're
looking for, MyLife continues searching and provides updates and alerts.
MyLife suggests friends and contacts you may know based on your profile
information and existing contacts. It also intimates you when someone
else is looking for you. MyLife gives you a global view into the most
popular sites your friends are part of, including LinkedIn, Facebook and
MySpace as well as 50 other sites.
15. Flixster:
Flixster is a social networking site for movie fans. Users can create
their own profiles, invite friends, rate movies and actors, and post
movie reviews as well. From the site, people can also get information
about movies, read user-generated movie reviews and ratings, converse
with other users, get movie show times, view popular celebrity photos,
read the latest movie news, and view video clips from popular movies and
TV shows. Flixster.com also operates leading movie applications on
Facebook, MySpace, iPhone, Android, and BlackBerry.
16. myHeritage:
MyHeritage is a family-oriented social network service and genealogy
website. It allows members to create their own family websites, share
pictures and videos, organize family events, create family trees, and
search for ancestors. There are more than 15 million family trees and 91
million photos on the site, and the site is accessible in over 35
languages.
17. Multiply:
Multiply is a vibrant social shopping destination, but faster and more
convenient, where sellers and buyers interact. A user's network is made
up of their direct contacts, as well as others who are closely connected
to them through their first-degree relationships. Users are also
encouraged to specify the nature of their relationship with one another,
making it possible to share content based on relationship. Many
shoppers in the Philippines, Indonesia, Malaysia, Singapore, Thailand
and Vietnam have made the Multiply Marketplace a favourite shopping
destination.
18. Orkut: Orkut
is a free social networking website where you can create a profile,
connect with friends, maintain an online scrapbook and use site features
and applications to share your interests and meet others. The
prerequisite for logging on to Orkut is that the user must be over 18
years old. Currently, Orkut is the most popular in Brazil. The number of
orkut users in India is almost equivalent to those in its original home
in the United States.
19. Badoo:
Badoo is a multi-lingual social networking website. It is gaining
popularity in emerging markets like Russia and Brazil. The site allows
users to create profiles, send each other messages, and rate each
other’s profile pictures at no cost. However, features that are designed
to make user profile more visible to other users are provided at a
cost. Badoo includes geographic proximity feature that identifies users’
locations based on analysis of their network connection. This lets
users know if there are people near their current location who may wish
to meet.
20. Gaia Online:
Gaia Online is a mix of social networking and massive multiplayer
online role-playing games. It is a leading online hangout for teens and
young adults, and offers a wide range of features from discussion forums
and virtual towns to fully customizable profiles and avatars. It
provides a fun, social environment that inspires creativity and helps
people make meaningful connections around shared interests such as
gaming, arts and anime.
21. BlackPlanet:
Initially, BlackPlanet was designed as a way for African-American
professionals to network. Since then, it's grown and evolved as a site
operating under the principles of Web 2.0. Members can read other
members' blogs, watch music videos, chat with one another, look for new
careers and discuss news. Though BlackPlanet is not restricted to any
community, this site is more popular amongst African-American. This site
helped Obama to connect to nearly 200,000 potential supporters.
22. SkyRock:
SkyRock.com is a social networking site that offers its members free
web space where they can create a blog, add a profile, and exchange
messages with other registered members. The site also offers a specific
space for members who create blogs showcasing their original musical
compositions. SkyRock is very popular in France and French speaking
markets including Switzerland and Belgium. The site is also available in
English, German, Dutch and Spanish. It’s very popular in the European
Union.
23. PerfSpot:
PerfSpot provides a web portal for people of any age, gender, or
background to share their interests and favourite things on the web.
PerfSpot currently publishes its site in 37 different languages, with
comprehensive moderator team based in the U.S. and the Philippines that
screens through up to a million pictures on a daily basis.
24. Zorpia:
Zorpia.com is a social network that has a large international
community. Zorpia’s features include profile customization, networking
features and an incredibly detailed search. Zorpia has an impressive
music section featuring popular artists like Ashlee Simpson, Vanessa
Hudgens, Alanis Morissette and more. You can purchase a Royal Membership
for extra networking options such as an ad–free profile, extra profile
design features and unlimited messaging.
25. Netlog:
Netlog (formerly known as Facebox and Bingbox) is a Belgian social
networking website specifically targeted at the European youth
demographic. On Netlog, you can create your own web page with a blog,
pictures, videos, events and much more to share with your friends.
Netlog is pageview market leader in Belgium, Italy, Austria,
Switzerland, Romania and Turkey. In the Netherlands, Germany, France and
Portugal, Netlog covers the second place. Pan European, Netlog is the
market leader. Netlog is localized in over 25 languages, to enable users
from around the world to access the network.
26. Tuenti:
Tuenti is an invitation-only private social networking website. It has
been referred to as the "Spanish Facebook”, by many social network
watchers. It is one of the largest social networking sites in Spain. It
allows you to set up a profile, upload photos, link videos and connect
and chat with friends. Many other utilities, such as the ability to
create events, are also offered. From 2009, utilizing a simple
interface, Tuenti user can change their language to Catalán, Basque,
Galician, and English. Tuenti is also available as an iPhone App.
27. Nasza-Klasa.pl:
nasza-klasapl is considered one of the largest and most used social
networking sites in Poland. It primarily brings together school's
students and alumni. The site is in polish therefore restricting its
popularity only to Poland and polish speaking people. Nevertheless, it
claims to be the most popular networking site in Poland, and therefore,
has found its niche in the competitive social networking space. The site
where one might say, new meets old, where the intractability is like
Facebook, yet traditional with old styled forums.
28. IRC-Galleria:
IRC Gallery has been one of the most popular social networking sites
for over 10 years, in Finland; with over 5.5 lakh registered users, 90%
of which use the site regularly. IRC-Galleria is popular within the age
group of 18-22. To be able to create an account with this site, at least
one of the uploaded images must be accepted by the administrator. While
regular users can upload only up to 60 visible images, you have the
option to upgrade to VIP status that enables you to upload 10,000
visible images. Using this site, users can communicate with other users,
comments on photos, and join over a 100 communities.
29. StudiVZ:
StudiVZ is the biggest social networking site in Germany. It is also
popular in German-speaking countries like Switzerland and Austria. This
site works as a student directory in particular for college and
university students in Europe. The site allows students to maintain a
personal page that containing their personal information like name, age,
study subjects, interests, courses and group memberships (within
StudiVZ).
30. Xing:
Xing, (formally known as openBC/Open Business Club) is a professional
networking tool. It is popular in countries like Germany, Spain,
Portugal, Italy and France. Xing is similar to LinkedIn and claims to
have professionals from over 200 countries. Xing has two features Basic
and Premium, depending on weather the user wants to use the site for
free or at a cost. It is available in different languages including
English, German, Spanish, Portuguese, Italian, French, Dutch, Chinese,
Finnish, Swedish, Korean, Japanese, Russian, Polish, Turkish and
Hungarian; French and German being the most popularly.
31. Renren:
Renren (formerly called Xiaonei Network) is one of the largest social
networking sites in China, and caters to people of Chinese origin. It is
very popular amongst college students. Renren also has a WAP version,
which users can access through mobile phones. It features an instant
messaging service for its users. Users can use the same username to log
in both Renren and Kaixin. Renren appeals more to Chinese college
students who use internet cafes, while Kaixin001 targets Chinese
white-collar workers who have internet access at work.
32. Kaixin001:
Kaixin001 is a popular professional networking tool in China. The
target audience for Kaixin’s, are typically white-collar middle class
who come from a first tier city. This site in China is extremely popular
among people who work for multinational companies, ad agencies and
other white collar companies. Kaixin001 has gained much more popularity
since 2009, because social networking sites, such as Myspace, Facebook,
Twitter and Youtube were blocked in China.
33. Hyves.nl:
Hyves, pronounced hives (from beehives) is the largest social network
in Netherlands, with many Dutch visitors and members. Hyves Payments and
Hyves Games, allows you to play games and pay friends through the
social network. Hyves provides usual amenities of a social networking
site, including profiles, blogs, photos, and so on. ‘Hyven’ (Hyving)
became a common word in Dutch, and is gaining popularity across Europe.
34. Millat Facebook:
MillatFacebook is a Muslim-oriented social networking website.
Originally launched in Pakistan, it has gained popularity in Arab
counties as well. This site came into existence after Facebook was
banned in Pakisthan. Millatfacebook offers video chat, bulletins, blogs,
polls, shout box, and customization of profile page. Members can change
the page CSS and design it on their own will.
35. Ibibo:
Ibibo stands for iBuild, iBond. It is an Indian social networking site.
It is an umbrella site that offers a variety of applications under its
social network. The services offered include games, blogs, photo
unlimited storage, mail, messenger, videos, free SMS service, mail,
polls and surveys.
36. Sonico:
Sonico is a free-access social networking website focused on the Latin
American audience. You can do a to rage of things in this site including
search and add friends, interact with friends over message, update
their own personal profile, manage their privacy, upload photos and
videos, organize events, play games with other users. Sonico, more
importantly, let’s its members more control over their profile by giving
them three distinct profiles that the user can organize based on the
need: a private profile, a public profile, and a professional profile.
This site is popular in Latin America and other Spanish and Portuguese
Speaking Regions.
37. Wer-kennt-wen:
Wer-kennt-wen, is one of the most popular social networking website in
Germany. It is by an invitation-only social networking website, and only
for people over 14 years old. The site provides the user to write
blogs, chat with friends, and write in their guestbook. It provides
users a social community for people, to interact with anybody they want.
38. Cyworld:
Cyworld is a South Korean social network service. It has had a big
effect on Korea’s Internet culture. Many renowned Korean socialites and
celebrities have accounts where they post upcoming tours and works.
Cyword has networks in South Korea, China, and Vietnam and is gaining
popularity across Asia and the Pacific Island. Users have access to a
profile page, photos, drawings and images uploading, an avatar,
neighbourhoods, and clubs.
39. Mixi:
Mixi is primarily for Japanese. Mixi offers options to meeting new
people, send and receive messages, writing in a diary, read and comment
on others' diaries, organize and join communities and invite their
friends. The site requires users to own a Japanese cell phone which bars
anyone who is not or has not been a resident of Japan.
40. iWiW:
iWiW (abbreviation for International Who is Who) is a Hungarian social
networking web service. The site is an invite-only website, where a user
can provide personal information. Users can search for friends using
the search tool. iWiW allows users to log in to external websites using
their iWiW credentials. iWiW is also available for iPone and Android.
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Monday, June 23, 2014
7 Amazing Fiverr Ideas For Gigs To Make Quick Sales
Fiverr is a site that allows you offer services to clients for $5, there
are various types of gigs available on the fiverr site and some people
find it hard to make sales or even get clients for their gigs. I have
been a fiverr users for over 2 years now and i have read many fiverr
E-books and also WSO about how to increase sales and i found out that
there are just different books by different authors but they are just
saying the same thing.

Fiverr is a great way to make money at
home or just as a side of your job to pay for some expenses, some people
say $5 is too small and even fiverr removes $1 from it so you get $4
for each gig, now imagine you get 10 gigs a day that equals to $40 that
not bad for you per day.
Before you can start getting your gigs ordered like that you need to get
trusted by clients and as you get orders Fiverr increases your level
and that why Top Sellers get a lot of orders a day. I will list and
explain some amazing ideas of gigs that are always wanted everyday.Fiverr Ideas For Gigs
1. Design Banners
Designing banners for client is a very good gig that will allow sell easily, you don’t have to be a graphic designer to do this, you can download banner templates from site for free, all you have to do is integrate to photoshop and edit it and deliver the gigs and $4 is yours.2. Article Writing
This is another fiverr gig that is always ordered everyday, you can help client write articles for their blogs or websites or even essay writing as some students usually come to order these gigs and not to get to too much trouble with your client you can give out a clear information that you will be writing a 300. 400 or even 500 words articles, you decide which you want.3. Video Recording
Video recording a good gig where you give a testimony for your client about their product or services and also it been in form of a press release, once you have a good camera then this gig is good for you.4. Singing
If you have a very good voice you can also sing songs and record it can send it, this song can be from your clients or you can create yours but mostly love songs, birthdays songs etc. you record and send to them.5. Personalized Gigs
This are gigs that offer different types of gifts such as designing for Greating cards for valentine or Christmas season cards and so much more. These gig is very easy to offer, just ask Google anything you need and it ready to give you and that how you make money.6. Social Media Gigs
These gig is also very easy, offer that your client can give you a link to put in your social media accounts such as facebook, twitter, Google + and so on. all you have to do is post the link on your social media account maybe twice or more depends on what you and your client agrees to.7. Design Websites
Learn how to design websites and blogs i know that this gigs is too much for $4 as it consumes time, so all you do is to learn coding very well such as html, css, php and more. And all you have to offer are some editing of there blogs or website. maybe to add a widget or change colour all the small jobs in designing and you will get sales.Conclusion
In getting sales is no magic all you have to do is to make sure what
you offer ware what people are seriously and despite looking for and not
to forget make sure your gig is very attractive for clients to order
your gig, I will take more about creating a very attractive gig for
quick sales. Just stay tuned and make sure you subscribe to your
newsletter to know when it has been posted and other good and educative
tips. I hope this post was able to help get that fiverr ideas for gigs ?
Sunday, June 22, 2014
8 Powerful Tips To Get Quick Sales On Fiverr

Fiverr is a great website where you work and you get per 5 bucks per gig, the site has been helping many skilled people get income easily by just using their skills to help people out. If you are reading this post then you know what fiverr is so if you don’t know about the site then you can pay a visit the site.
There are some powerful and very helpful
tips you should not miss out especially when you are trying to make
sales on fiverr, normally the what people do when the want to make money
from fiverr is to simply go to the site and create an account then
start creating gigs for people to order. As easy as it sounds, where
there are over 100 thousand sellers and over 2000 people offering your
gig what then makes a buyer order your gig instead of others?
That question is what I will be trying
to answer with the power tips I will be sharing with you in this post.
When you apply such tips to your fiverr account and you will be
surprised at the sales you will be able to get. So let get straight to
the business of the post.
What are these Fiverr Powerful Tips To Get Fast Sales On Fiverr?
1. What You Offer

What can you bring to the table that
buyer want and will like to order is one of the important questions that
needs to be answered and also the basic of a successful fiverr income
source. If what you offer is not wanted by anyone then you gig won’t get
orders from buyer just because they don’t want what you offer. So first
know what the buyer want and try to learn them and use them.
2. Be Professional
Before creating a gig it is normally good to know what you are offering very well so that you won’t be surprised when the buyers start throwing question
and you and you will end up loosing the gig to someone else. Now been
professional does not just end in questions but also in your appearance,
normally people don’t take this part important because before I order a
gig I look at the seller profile in case the seller looks weird. Try
to have this professional look in your profile and also try to create
good conversation with your client and sound professional when doing so.
3. Other Gigs

Normally some people that uses fiverr
don’t notice that the other gigs in your account also affect your sales,
when you have a profile with 20 gig which is the limit of the amount of
a fiverr account, so if those 20 gigs in your account does not fit each
other it looks like someone just want to make money from all areas
which does look attractive, for example you created a gig about
designing of pictures and the other gigs look somehow then it does not
attractive buyer to order the gig.
4. Gig Title
This is a very important part of getting
quick sales, if you miss this part then there is nothing for you, I say
that for sure. Having an attractive title is very important. The title
just makes the sellers eyes click on your gig, there are many ways to
make your gig look attractive. For example this is a title of a normal
gig “I will design banner for $5” and this is the attractive gig “I will design An Awesome and Beautiful banner for $5” now tell me which one will you order if you were the buyer? I know which one you will pick.
5. Gig Descriptions
The Gig description is very important
and it not something you just play with because this is what helps the
buyer understand what you are selling or offering. Normally I can just
say I have a format for writing a good description but you can also do
what I normally do to write a very good and attractive description. To
write a good description go to the top sellers of what you are offering
and look for what different between your own and the top sellers own.
Note: am not telling you to copy word for word, please don’t do that.
6. Upload A Video
Fiverr officially made it necessary to
upload a video of yourself telling your client about what you offer,
this is totally necessary if you want to get more sales as fiverr normal
select Gig for the featured categories and for your gig to be selected
you must have a video of each of your gigs, something to note is that
the video must be different from other and it is good if you are in the video.
7. Gig Picture
Fiverr users are fun of this which is
copying another seller’s gig pix and using it thereby creating this kind
of cloud of similarity which is not good especially for new seller
because it will be well seen that you copied the picture from someone
else. Been unique is the key and without this it will be hard to get
quality sales.
8. Always Give Bonus

Which human being those not like free
things? Not me, what normally rocks now is giving out bonus to buyers
and also get more orders in return, you can place this in your
description alongside with your condition of getting the bonus as this
will attract the buyer to your gig and you will get more sales because
of this. It has worked for me and am sure it will work for you.
Conclusion
These tips that have mentioned above are
really very powerful and if you miss or don’t do some of these above
tips, then am sorry because you might wait for 4 months without getting
an order, so I urge you to try them out and see why I call them powerful
tips. So enjoy fiverr and make money. Your comment and contribution
are also welcomed please use the comment box.
Thanks ...sochet
How to Overcome Laziness
Call it laziness, sloth, ineptitude, idleness, or whatever you like but
the idea of doing nothing when things needs to be done is often
considered to be a sign of weakness or shirking. Sometimes laziness
happens when you don't want to face something, like a boring chore or a
difficult confrontation with someone. Other times, it might be because
you feel overwhelmed and think the task needs a whole team rather than
just you. And then there are those times where you really just can't be
bothered. In any case. it's simply not a desirable trait.
Part 1 of 4: Setting Your Mind Straight
1. Figure out the real issue. Every time you start being lazy, stand back and do a little assessment of what's been really happening. Laziness is generally a symptom and not the problem itself. What's the cause of your lack of motivation? Are you tired, overwhelmed, afraid, hurting, or just plain uninspired and stuck? Most likely, the sticking issue is smaller than you think, and you can get past it more easily than you realize.
- Whatever it is that is holding you back, do your best to unearth it. In most cases, it'll be one single specific problem or detail. Finding the cause is the only way you can actually address it. Once you address it, you can deal with it effectively.
- If you're tired, start devoting some time to relaxing. Everyone needs down time. If your schedule doesn't allow for it, you may have to make some sacrifices. But your output will be all the more better for it.
- If you're overwhelmed, take a step back. How can you simplify what's on your plate? Can you parse it into sections and make it smaller? Can you make a list of priorities and tackle them one at a time?
- If you're afraid, what are you afraid of? Obviously this is something you wish you were doing. Are you afraid of reaching your potential? Of finally hitting your goals and being unhappy? How can you see that your fear is irrational?
- If you're hurting, maybe the only answer is time. Grief, sadness, all those negative emotions won't go away at will. Our wounds need time to heal. Putting less pressure on yourself to stop hurting may be the catalyst for change you seek.
- If you're uninspired, what can you change about your routine? Can you put yourself in a different environment or is a mental demon you have to conquer? How can you vamp up everyday life? Think in terms of your senses. Music, food, sights, sounds, etc.
- There's a lot that's going on in our subconscious that we don't account for. Whether it's an unpleasant color palette or an inadequate amount of light or a lack of balance in some way, shape, or form, somewhere we know about it. Get rid of that tiny-but-powerful deterrent by getting organized.
- Every time you find yourself not performing up to par, twist it around to the positive. "It was a slow morning, but now it's time to fuel up. Now that it's afternoon, I'm buckling down!" You'll be surprised that the surge in mental positivity could actually change your outlook.
- Next time you find yourself thinking about the past or the future, draw yourself back into the present. Whether it's the scene around you, the food on your fork, or the music in your ears, let it show you how cool it is to be walking Earth and living. Sometimes stopping and slowing down can give us the energy to take advantage of what we have at our disposal.
- It'd be wonderful, that's what. Let these positive ideas take over your train of thought. And be sure to realize that once you get going and develop the habit, everything will come that much easier.